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I think... I like to think...
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I like to think of myself
as a giving person.
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And I probably just like the idea that
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there's a part of me out there somewhere.
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Should I say something to them?
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Hello!
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I hope you are loved.
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I think you are, because your parent
or parents went through a lot to have you.
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Life is going to be good.
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And bad.
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So...
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Good luck!
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SOLOMAMMA
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Hi, Edith!
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- Hi!
- Sigurd is outside.
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{\an8}- Ok. But Anders, I was wondering...
- What?
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{\an8}Did you get a chance to hand out
the books I gave you?
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{\an8}The ones about Karla.
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Karla? Yes, I did.
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That's great! Did you read them too?
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{\an8}Yes. I mean, I'm not sure exactly...
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{\an8}I'm not sure how far everyone got.
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{\an8}But they're working on it.
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{\an8}But you've read them?
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{\an8}- Not yet.
- I'm going to make so many of these!
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{\an8}I want to do that too! Like that, yes!
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{\an8}Can I have one of those?
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{\an8}Wow, is that your cake!
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What do you want for dinner?
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- Salmon and sweet potato!
- Yes! That sounds delicious.
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Why is it always you picking up Sigurd?
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- Is his dad dead?
- No!
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- Is he in prison?
- No, but you know what?
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When I wanted to make Sigurd,
there were no available daddies.
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- So I went to the hospital...
- Everyone has a dad.
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Kids don't care what's normal.
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That's what I thought,
but children need a language too.
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When adults don't explain things,
kids make up their own stories.
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It's time you started hanging
out with grownups, Edith.
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You know you can date
even if you have a kid, right?
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What's your donor book about?
"Karla has no dad, and it's awesome"?
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Yes, that sums it up.
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It should be about not needing
to be two in every decision.
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Was that comment for me?
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Maybe you should do everything yourself?
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- Why didn't I think of that?
- And now it's too late.
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But speaking of donors...
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You've never told us
what you know about yours.
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- If I'm allowed to ask.
- Of course you can.
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I think it's a boring question.
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- I ask with no prejudice.
- It's alright.
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It's like a journal where
they describe themselves.
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- Hobbies, favourite food.
- You have that recording.
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- Recording?
- Of the donor talking to a psychologist.
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I didn't know about that.
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Do you still think of him as anonymous?
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I don't know his name
or address or anything.
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And I don't want to know.
He's just a donor.
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- What if a donor is lying?
- No one would do that.
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If it was me, I would just
make up stuff to get chosen.
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I'd say I got straight A's in school
and was the fastest runner.
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A psychologist would know
if you were lying.
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"Psychologist".
If you're clever, you get away with it.
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Some young guy wanting to pass on
his genes, make a bit of money.
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You're considering donating?
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Some of them are eighteen. Their
frontal lobes aren't fully developed.
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Is this the same wine as before?
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It's just crazy to think about.
Sigurd is 50 percent of his donor.
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But who would do that?
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- I watched a YouTube video.
- How fun!
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Remember I told you?
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This woman in the US discovered
that her donor was schizophrenic.
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- Torbjørn.
- I'm not saying...
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- I'm just asking!
- There's mommy!
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- Hello!
- Hi, Trine!
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- Pizza! Can I have some?
- Give me a big hug first.
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This looks nice.
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- This is Marie and Torbjørn.
- Trine
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- You remember Selma from last year.
- Good to see you again.
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Trine and I met when we found out that
Sigurd and Amanda were half-siblings.
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- Did you have fun?
- Yes.
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This was so nice.
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I can't fit the bike wheel I found.
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I want a new toy box. Amanda has one.
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But she's not using it.
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It just stands there.
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Mommy!
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When Karla's mother wanted a child,
she didn't have a husband or boyfriend.
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So she went to see the doctor
and asked for help.
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The doctor found a sperm donor
for Karla's mommy.
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Karla doesn't know
what a sperm donor is,
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but it must be a kind man,
since he helped mommy have Karla.
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Alfie Atkins knows where his dad is.
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Sure, but he doesn't
know where his mum is.
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- Amanda has a dad now.
- Yup.
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- You like Amanda, don't you?
- Yes.
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Look at him!
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- I want to read a different book.
- Ok.
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Good idea. Let's read a different book.
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- Hi.
- Hi.
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Isn't it past your bedtime?
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Yes.
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It's late.
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Let me look at you.
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Have you stopped going
to the hairdresser?
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It's time for bed. It's late.
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- Go to bed.
- Yes.
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Night, mum.
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Donor 24897: Inuus. Welcome
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Thank you.
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Why don't you tell us about yourself.
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I'm from Norway.
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I live in Copenhagen right now,
for work.
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Am I allowed to say that?
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That information
will be included in your profile.
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Can you tell us
about your current work situation?
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What are you doing right now?
You are self-employed?
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It sounds like I'm unemployed.
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I'm an entrepreneur. Tech development.
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Why did you choose that field?
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I guess because it's what I'm good at.
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I'm really into fermenting.
Kimchi, kombucha, sourdough bread.
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I just bought a mountain bike.
I like to bike around the woods.
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And I played tennis for a while.
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But I wasn't any good, so I quit.
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And what kinds of people
do you like to be around?
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People who share the same interests,
I guess. Same values.
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I was always on my computer
since I was a kid,
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and I thought, why not keep
doing the work that I put in right now.
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To be able to use my knowledge
and technology in a positive way.
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To help kids learn, for example.
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I would also like to
help people have a better life.
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I'm a curious person.
I like to observe other people.
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It's kind of a passion, really.
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I prefer asking questions or listen
rather than talk about myself.
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What are you writing, Edith?
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Not much.
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I'm finishing the interview
with the researcher in Trondheim.
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On genetic engineering.
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And I'm interviewing
the 17-year-old who's in custody.
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Is that ready for Thursday?
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Well, we lost
our source in Nesbru yesterday.
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He pulled out during quote check,
so I have to start from scratch.
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Petter, you're on the royals.
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The confusion is worst at night.
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She's isolating herself more,
doesn't want to see her friends.
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Wow, thank you!
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So you have two children at home?
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- Yeah.
- Maybe you should call Kari.
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Get her to take Dorthe out.
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- How's Sigurd taking it?
- He's so small. I don't think he gets it.
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They're so close. I don't want him to be
scared by how she's changing.
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- Maybe take her to the doctor again.
- I've thought about it.
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- Selma, look what I got!
- A zippo lighter! Nice.
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We can polish it and put it
in your case display.
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- He's such a character.
- An old soul.
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I was quite easy as a child.
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I'd sit and look at
my older siblings run around.
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I wasn't so interested
in kids my own age.
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Why do you think that is?
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You tell me.
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I like to observe other people.
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IS AUTISM HERITABLE?
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I'm not shy, but... I'm a
sensitive person.
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IS HYPERSENSITIVITY HERITABLE?
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They called me Buddah, actually.
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I'm not obsessive,
but I go deep into things I like.
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IS OCD HERITABLE?
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Do you plan to have a family?
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It depends on what happens in life.
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I prefer to ask questions
rather than talk.
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IS INTROVERSION HERITABLE?
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I like to think of myself
as a giving person.
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IS NARCISSISM HERITABLE?
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I read really fast.
I like to be outdoors.
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I like to be in other people's space.
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If you could change
anything about yourself...
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Probably a lot of things.
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I wish I had less self-doubt growing up.
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Do you ever think about dad?
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Why are you bringing him up?
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I remember thinking
it was my fault that he...
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...left.
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It's strange to think about now.
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I tried to make myself invisible,
so he'd come home.
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But...
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Aren't we happy, the two of us?
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- Yes, we were.
- Were?
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We are happy.
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I went to see him once
when I was twelve.
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Did you see him without telling me?
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Yes.
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But I couldn't call him daddy.
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He seemed relieved.
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There you go.
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He was never a father, Edith.
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Pancakes and .
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Bye! Have fun.
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- Bye!
- Bye, Jens!
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- But what do you want for your birthday?
- I already told you!
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- You can't say "stuff from the street".
- Yes, I can!
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It's not for a while yet.
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Pokémon cards or something?
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Only if it's not from a shop,
and it's old.
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We can go to the toy shop later
and find a gift for your brother.
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I want something unique!
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Sweetheart, I think it's great
that you want something unique.
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But maybe you're making it
a bit hard for Amanda.
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- Does it have to be from the street?
- She asked what I wanted.
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- Do you want to play ring toss?
- Yes!
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- You guys just relax for a bit.
- Thanks.
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They look more and more alike,
don't you think?
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No, I don't see it.
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I googled collectomania the other day.
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Apparently it's related to OCD.
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Okay.
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I've googled it too. It's not that.
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It's genetic, apparently.
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Were you like that?
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- I don't remember.
- It could be from Inuus.
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- Let's just relax for a bit.
- Yes, of course.
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It's so nice.
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I've found Inuus.
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I know his name.
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I had to find it so I could
stop thinking about it.
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But that's completely...
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- Jens doesn't like me thinking about him.
- Right.
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It's hard for him,
because I already had Amanda when we met.
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But he likes hearing about you.
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The sperm sisters.
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That Amanda and Sigurd are like siblings.
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I just...
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He lives right over in Nesodden.
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- What?
- Yeah.
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And his name is Niels Krohn.
Isn't that a crazy name?
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Well, maybe not crazy,
but it's just so real all of a sudden.
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- Bye!
- Goodbye!
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I think maybe we'll walk home.
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I'm just in the mood to walk.
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Let's take a photo first.
We always forget that.
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Say cheese!
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Cheez doodles!
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Cheez doodles!
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- Cheese!
- Smile, everyone!
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Brown cheese!
248
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NORWEGIAN GAME DEVELOPER
REACHES 20 MILLION USERS
249
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DEVELOPER FACES CRITICISM
FROM MINISTER OF EDUCATION
250
00:21:28,753 --> 00:21:33,003
- I wish I had less self-doubt...
- If you could change anything...
251
00:21:38,795 --> 00:21:41,545
Hello! This is your donor.
252
00:21:44,211 --> 00:21:48,128
- Mommy, what was that?
- That's just grandma.
253
00:21:50,795 --> 00:21:52,670
She's weird.
254
00:21:54,086 --> 00:21:55,503
Hi.
255
00:22:18,003 --> 00:22:21,961
- Hello?
- Niels Krohn?
256
00:22:22,128 --> 00:22:26,211
This is Edith Westerlund
calling from Aftenposten.
257
00:22:26,378 --> 00:22:28,211
Is this a good time to talk?
258
00:22:29,836 --> 00:22:32,003
What's this about?
259
00:22:34,336 --> 00:22:38,128
I'm doing a piece
on Norwegian game developers.
260
00:22:38,295 --> 00:22:41,628
- And you want to write about me?
- Yes!
261
00:22:46,378 --> 00:22:50,670
I don't need another article about
how I made kids addicted to gaming.
262
00:22:50,836 --> 00:22:52,836
That's not the angle.
263
00:22:53,003 --> 00:22:56,670
I'm writing about developers
who've done well abroad.
264
00:22:58,003 --> 00:22:59,878
Oh, I see.
265
00:23:00,045 --> 00:23:03,961
- Alright, well...
- Yes.
266
00:23:04,128 --> 00:23:07,086
Where do you usually...
267
00:23:07,253 --> 00:23:10,545
I could come out to...
I could come to yours.
268
00:23:12,003 --> 00:23:17,003
- I live in Nesodden, it's a bit far.
- I love Nesodden.
269
00:23:18,961 --> 00:23:20,836
Sure, if it's not a hassle.
270
00:23:21,003 --> 00:23:26,003
It's just a trick to make
you more relaxed.
271
00:23:26,170 --> 00:23:32,295
I can send you some dates and times,
and then we go from there?
272
00:23:32,461 --> 00:23:35,503
- Ok, sounds good.
- Great.
273
00:23:35,670 --> 00:23:39,961
- I guess I'll see you, then.
- Alright.
274
00:23:40,128 --> 00:23:42,586
- Speak soon.
- Bye.
275
00:25:07,628 --> 00:25:09,086
- Hi!
- Hi.
276
00:25:09,253 --> 00:25:11,170
- Edith?
- Yes!
277
00:25:11,336 --> 00:25:15,336
Was it hard getting here?
With the ferry and everything? Come in!
278
00:25:20,545 --> 00:25:23,878
The floors are cold,
so I've got slippers.
279
00:25:24,045 --> 00:25:25,628
I'm alright, thanks.
280
00:25:25,795 --> 00:25:28,836
You have to wear them. It's really cold.
281
00:25:31,628 --> 00:25:34,378
- Alright. These ones?
- Yes.
282
00:25:37,545 --> 00:25:39,295
There.
283
00:25:40,836 --> 00:25:43,711
Thanks for coming all the way.
284
00:25:47,753 --> 00:25:50,961
Would you like coffee or tea?
285
00:26:12,128 --> 00:26:16,045
I probably should've asked
you this on the phone, but...
286
00:26:16,211 --> 00:26:18,753
My daughter really wants
to be a journalist.
287
00:26:18,920 --> 00:26:22,503
So I told her she could
listen in while we talk.
288
00:26:24,878 --> 00:26:26,711
- Is that a problem?
- No.
289
00:26:30,045 --> 00:26:32,628
It was a bit of a coincidence.
290
00:26:32,795 --> 00:26:35,628
I was never much of a gamer.
291
00:26:36,586 --> 00:26:40,753
What's your role in the company?
That wasn't clear to me.
292
00:26:40,920 --> 00:26:47,170
I guess I'm... a consultant
to my own company, in a way.
293
00:26:47,336 --> 00:26:51,128
And I do some teaching on the side
when I have the time.
294
00:26:54,170 --> 00:26:55,961
So... Yeah.
295
00:26:57,336 --> 00:27:03,211
It's a bit odd that you reached out to me.
There are so many experts out there.
296
00:27:04,670 --> 00:27:08,253
Who might be more... relevant.
297
00:27:09,378 --> 00:27:13,295
But it's cool. It's fun being able to...
298
00:27:13,461 --> 00:27:17,878
Well, Fruit Hippo was a
huge success when it came out.
299
00:27:18,045 --> 00:27:21,711
And that you were
criticised so heavily after has...
300
00:27:21,878 --> 00:27:24,503
I'd like to know how one moves
on from that.
301
00:27:24,670 --> 00:27:26,545
Yes, well...
302
00:27:28,628 --> 00:27:33,461
I've really grappled
with the ethical dilemmas.
303
00:27:33,628 --> 00:27:35,336
That's for...
304
00:27:37,295 --> 00:27:38,420
NAIVE
305
00:27:38,586 --> 00:27:41,336
And during development,
306
00:27:41,503 --> 00:27:46,711
were ethical guidelines
something you considered at all?
307
00:27:46,878 --> 00:27:54,086
The success was so much greater and
quicker than we had imagined, so it was...
308
00:27:54,920 --> 00:27:56,795
SMUG
309
00:27:56,961 --> 00:27:59,920
I was in charge of the creative side,
310
00:28:00,086 --> 00:28:04,545
I wasn't involved with programming much
due to my dyslexia.
311
00:28:05,295 --> 00:28:10,003
I remember discussions around launch.
312
00:28:10,170 --> 00:28:15,503
We were aware of it,
but the success took us all by surprise.
313
00:28:15,670 --> 00:28:18,003
- So you're dyslexic?
- Yes.
314
00:28:20,586 --> 00:28:22,628
I'm not dyslexic.
315
00:28:23,753 --> 00:28:25,711
Right.
316
00:28:25,878 --> 00:28:29,836
- It's not heritable, is it?
- I think it is. My dad has it.
317
00:28:32,545 --> 00:28:36,378
- Would you like something to drink?
- I'm alright.
318
00:28:36,545 --> 00:28:38,753
- Or something to eat?
- No, thank you.
319
00:28:48,961 --> 00:28:51,170
Why are you interviewing him?
320
00:28:52,461 --> 00:28:54,045
Well, uh...
321
00:28:55,295 --> 00:28:57,920
- What do you mean?
- No, don't.
322
00:28:58,086 --> 00:29:01,128
Don't listen to her. She's completely...
323
00:29:02,420 --> 00:29:04,253
Completely confused.
324
00:29:11,586 --> 00:29:14,045
- Could I use the toilet?
- Of course.
325
00:29:14,211 --> 00:29:16,211
There's one upstairs.
326
00:30:40,420 --> 00:30:44,211
It's not that big a deal.
327
00:30:44,378 --> 00:30:48,503
This doesn't happen every day.
It's not a big deal!
328
00:30:48,670 --> 00:30:51,170
It is! I came back here to-
329
00:30:51,336 --> 00:30:53,836
You're acting like this happens
every day.
330
00:30:54,003 --> 00:30:55,545
That's not the point.
331
00:30:55,711 --> 00:30:58,420
The world doesn't end just because .
- He went to school without any food!
332
00:30:58,586 --> 00:31:02,753
- It's not that big of a deal!
- We have to go.
333
00:31:02,920 --> 00:31:04,836
Bye, Silas.
334
00:31:15,628 --> 00:31:19,378
Molly is just getting a pencil sharpener.
We can just continue.
335
00:31:19,545 --> 00:31:22,878
If it's a bad time,
we can do this another day.
336
00:31:23,045 --> 00:31:24,711
OK.
337
00:31:26,336 --> 00:31:32,503
With the rapid advance
of technology, there arise...
338
00:31:33,878 --> 00:31:37,253
...ethical dilemmas
you have to deal with as you go.
339
00:31:37,420 --> 00:31:41,336
I like to think of myself
as a giving person.
340
00:31:41,503 --> 00:31:44,878
I probably just like the idea
341
00:31:45,045 --> 00:31:48,753
that there's a part of me
out there somewhere.
342
00:31:51,586 --> 00:31:54,711
...but on the other hand, it's also-
- Damn.
343
00:31:57,336 --> 00:32:01,253
- What is it?
- I have to pick my son up from daycare.
344
00:32:02,461 --> 00:32:04,878
- I'm sorry.
- No worries.
345
00:32:05,045 --> 00:32:09,795
I have several missed calls.
He's really ill, apparently.
346
00:32:09,961 --> 00:32:12,336
- Throwing up all over...
- No worries.
347
00:32:12,503 --> 00:32:15,211
You probably didn't get
everything you needed?
348
00:32:15,378 --> 00:32:18,586
Let's see. I'm really sorry.
349
00:32:18,753 --> 00:32:22,045
I know what it's like to have kids.
350
00:32:22,211 --> 00:32:26,211
Thank you.
No need to walk me out.
351
00:32:26,378 --> 00:32:29,961
- You'll be in touch, then?
- Yes.
352
00:32:34,461 --> 00:32:36,003
Are you leaving?
353
00:32:36,961 --> 00:32:39,836
My son is sick, so I have to-
354
00:32:40,003 --> 00:32:43,836
I have a few questions for you
for a school assignment.
355
00:32:44,003 --> 00:32:46,378
It'll only take a minute.
356
00:32:46,545 --> 00:32:50,295
Questions like,
"What does it take to be a journalist?"
357
00:32:50,461 --> 00:32:54,336
"How many hours
do you work in a typical day?"
358
00:32:54,503 --> 00:32:56,711
"How do you get an internship?"
359
00:32:56,878 --> 00:32:59,753
Molly! Edith has to go.
360
00:32:59,920 --> 00:33:02,836
But maybe we can pick this up
another time?
361
00:33:04,586 --> 00:33:06,795
- Yes...
- Is that alright?
362
00:33:06,961 --> 00:33:08,961
I'll text you.
363
00:33:19,128 --> 00:33:22,878
Edith, this is the most
fucked up shit you've ever done.
364
00:33:23,045 --> 00:33:28,378
Yes, but now I can put it behind me.
It's over and done with.
365
00:33:28,545 --> 00:33:32,753
If he asks, I'll just say
they shelved the story.
366
00:33:32,920 --> 00:33:36,420
You weren't even close
to finishing the interview!
367
00:33:38,253 --> 00:33:43,170
I'll tell him I got fired.
I'm never going back there. Ever.
368
00:33:44,378 --> 00:33:46,336
But what did you find out?
369
00:33:46,503 --> 00:33:48,711
He's got a wife and two kids.
370
00:33:48,878 --> 00:33:50,878
What?
371
00:33:51,045 --> 00:33:52,961
Was he married when he donated?
372
00:33:54,003 --> 00:33:57,628
- Does his wife know?
- I hadn't even thought of that.
373
00:33:57,795 --> 00:34:00,211
Do you think he's lied to her?
374
00:34:02,753 --> 00:34:05,503
What does he look like now?
Send me a photo.
375
00:34:05,670 --> 00:34:07,128
Just a sec.
376
00:34:10,211 --> 00:34:11,795
There.
377
00:34:15,170 --> 00:34:18,378
- I can see Sigurd in him. The smile.
- I know.
378
00:34:18,545 --> 00:34:22,503
- This is crazy.
- What's wrong with me?
379
00:34:22,670 --> 00:34:28,628
Trine is crazy for giving you his name.
You can't tell her you met him.
380
00:34:28,795 --> 00:34:30,711
What is it, mommy?
381
00:34:36,836 --> 00:34:39,295
- What is what?
- You're being weird.
382
00:34:40,503 --> 00:34:42,253
Am I being weird?
383
00:35:18,670 --> 00:35:20,795
It's the red one.
384
00:35:20,961 --> 00:35:22,170
I know.
385
00:35:30,420 --> 00:35:33,920
Has Sigurd come up with any
better birthday wishes?
386
00:35:34,086 --> 00:35:38,795
- What do you mean, better?
- He's obsessed with his collection.
387
00:35:38,961 --> 00:35:43,878
I can't just go and find
a stick on the street to give him.
388
00:35:45,128 --> 00:35:47,503
He just wants something unique.
389
00:35:47,670 --> 00:35:50,461
But it's like he's obsessed with it.
390
00:35:50,628 --> 00:35:54,920
I can take him shopping this weekend,
391
00:35:55,086 --> 00:35:58,836
and then he can choose
something nice he likes.
392
00:36:00,545 --> 00:36:01,961
Well,
393
00:36:03,420 --> 00:36:07,045
I actually wanted to talk to you
about that.
394
00:36:07,211 --> 00:36:08,878
Okay?
395
00:36:12,920 --> 00:36:17,003
Just say it.
You're stuck inside your own head again.
396
00:36:17,170 --> 00:36:19,170
It's hard to talk about.
397
00:36:20,170 --> 00:36:25,795
I just... think it's better
if you don't go out with Sigurd.
398
00:36:28,378 --> 00:36:30,211
From now on.
399
00:36:33,461 --> 00:36:35,336
Okay.
400
00:36:35,503 --> 00:36:39,628
He's at an age
where he's hard to keep track of.
401
00:36:41,086 --> 00:36:44,211
I think it's better
if you spend time together here.
402
00:36:45,128 --> 00:36:49,211
That you play with him here.
You're so good at that.
403
00:37:04,545 --> 00:37:06,878
I'm going to my room.
404
00:37:07,045 --> 00:37:09,170
Can I ask you something else?
405
00:37:09,336 --> 00:37:12,628
Did I collect weird things
when I was little?
406
00:37:12,795 --> 00:37:16,503
I can't remember.
Maybe you did, maybe you didn't.
407
00:37:20,711 --> 00:37:22,128
HI, EDITH. DO YOU WANT
TO MEET TOMORROW,
408
00:37:22,295 --> 00:37:24,920
OR DID YOU GET
WHAT YOU NEEDED?
409
00:37:25,086 --> 00:37:28,920
HI, NIELS. SORRY FOR THE LATE REPLY.
MY EDITOR HAS ACTUALLY...
410
00:37:40,045 --> 00:37:41,461
Sorry.
411
00:37:43,920 --> 00:37:47,795
Edith?
There's a Niels Krohn here to see you.
412
00:37:49,753 --> 00:37:52,420
- Here?
- He says you're doing a piece on him.
413
00:37:52,586 --> 00:37:54,961
- But he's here? Now?
- Yeah, in the lobby.
414
00:37:57,170 --> 00:37:59,336
Do I know about this piece?
415
00:37:59,503 --> 00:38:00,836
Uh, no.
416
00:38:01,836 --> 00:38:04,045
I haven't had the time to tell you.
417
00:38:04,211 --> 00:38:07,253
- We could chat over lunch?
- Sure.
418
00:38:29,170 --> 00:38:33,420
Sorry to drop in like this,
but we were in the neighbourhood.
419
00:38:33,586 --> 00:38:38,670
Molly wanted to ask you
a few more questions. Right?
420
00:38:38,836 --> 00:38:43,420
I said no,
because you're probably really busy.
421
00:38:43,586 --> 00:38:46,045
But you really insisted, so.
422
00:38:46,211 --> 00:38:48,128
So I wanted to see if...
423
00:38:49,670 --> 00:38:52,003
...if this was a good time.
424
00:38:52,170 --> 00:38:58,503
Let me think.
We have an evaluation meeting,
425
00:38:58,670 --> 00:39:02,211
and I have some things
I need to do before that.
426
00:39:02,378 --> 00:39:07,170
Just forget that we stopped by.
Don't worry about it.
427
00:39:07,336 --> 00:39:10,211
But I'd love to talk
some more soon, Molly.
428
00:39:10,378 --> 00:39:14,420
Great. I was wondering if you could
look at that paper I mentioned.
429
00:39:14,586 --> 00:39:19,711
And I was wondering if you needed
anything else for the interview.
430
00:39:19,878 --> 00:39:23,128
Don't hesitate to reach out.
431
00:39:23,295 --> 00:39:30,503
I was waiting for my editor to greenlight
the story before we kept going, so.
432
00:39:31,295 --> 00:39:33,711
Alright. But...
433
00:39:34,711 --> 00:39:39,711
Ok, well, just let me know when you
find out.
434
00:39:39,878 --> 00:39:44,670
Yes! I have to go now,
but... I'll be in touch.
435
00:39:44,836 --> 00:39:47,878
And sorry again for dropping in like this.
436
00:39:49,045 --> 00:39:52,795
I like that it's not another
success story.
437
00:39:52,961 --> 00:39:53,920
I agree.
438
00:39:54,086 --> 00:39:56,086
But I'm not sure if
he's the right person for it.
439
00:39:56,253 --> 00:40:01,420
- Didn't you mention a video game?
- Yes. He made that Fruit Hippo game.
440
00:40:01,586 --> 00:40:05,461
Was that him?
My kids were obsessed with that.
441
00:40:05,628 --> 00:40:10,586
Weren't they criticised for
tricking money out of kids?
442
00:40:10,753 --> 00:40:14,045
Yes, but it was a long time ago.
It's not really news.
443
00:40:14,211 --> 00:40:17,628
Ethics and mobile gaming.
That's a pretty hot topic.
444
00:40:18,420 --> 00:40:20,961
Yes, of course.
445
00:40:21,128 --> 00:40:25,086
Simon can take over.
He's done a lot of research on it.
446
00:40:25,253 --> 00:40:27,045
Sure.
447
00:40:27,211 --> 00:40:30,170
I'll get him to reach out
to Krohn after lunch.
448
00:40:35,461 --> 00:40:38,795
You know what, I'll do it. You're right.
449
00:40:38,961 --> 00:40:42,211
I've already met him,
so it's best like that.
450
00:40:42,378 --> 00:40:45,295
- Are you sure?
- Yes.
451
00:41:09,503 --> 00:41:13,545
Are you thirsty? We have lots
of soda from a birthday party.
452
00:41:13,711 --> 00:41:16,878
Theres a ton of it.
453
00:41:17,211 --> 00:41:19,586
No, thank you. I'm alright.
454
00:41:23,253 --> 00:41:26,920
ANY OTHER DISABILITIES?
HOW BAD IS THE DYSLEXIA?
455
00:41:34,920 --> 00:41:36,628
Should we sit outside?
456
00:41:36,795 --> 00:41:40,545
- Sure, if you prefer.
- Yes.
457
00:41:42,586 --> 00:41:47,961
Nothing is flawless. A lot of stuff
can happen during a process like that.
458
00:41:48,128 --> 00:41:53,420
There's so many components. Servers can go
down, the software can be buggy.
459
00:41:53,586 --> 00:41:56,336
And there's
a significant risk of human error.
460
00:42:00,503 --> 00:42:05,628
- Am I boring you with this?
- No. It's interesting.
461
00:42:05,795 --> 00:42:10,253
Especially your own personal experiences.
462
00:42:10,420 --> 00:42:13,378
- Like we talked about last time.
- Yes.
463
00:42:13,545 --> 00:42:17,378
- Could you explain that further?
- There was a lot of...
464
00:42:23,086 --> 00:42:25,920
There was a lot of
fuzz around that game.
465
00:42:30,378 --> 00:42:32,628
I had a bit of a...
466
00:42:34,128 --> 00:42:36,628
...personal crisis after that.
467
00:42:42,336 --> 00:42:44,086
I see.
468
00:42:44,253 --> 00:42:47,753
Molly should be home any minute now.
469
00:42:49,045 --> 00:42:53,586
It's just us two today. Mia's working late
and Silas is with his dad.
470
00:42:55,170 --> 00:42:58,753
I see. So he's not your...
471
00:42:58,920 --> 00:43:03,545
- He's not your...
- No, I'm his stepdad.
472
00:43:04,920 --> 00:43:07,086
I see. And Molly?
473
00:43:08,086 --> 00:43:11,170
- So you don't have kids of your own?
- No.
474
00:43:13,295 --> 00:43:17,711
- I didn't mean it like that.
- Not biologically, no.
475
00:43:25,253 --> 00:43:28,503
I'd actually like a soda.
Is that ok?
476
00:43:28,670 --> 00:43:30,878
Of course! We have so many.
477
00:43:31,045 --> 00:43:33,711
There's lots of flavours.
478
00:43:37,170 --> 00:43:42,170
Let's see... Kiwi, raspberry...
479
00:43:42,336 --> 00:43:45,920
Uh... Lemon, pineapple -
that one's really good.
480
00:43:46,086 --> 00:43:49,545
- Lemon sounds good.
- Lemon? Me too.
481
00:43:52,670 --> 00:43:54,295
Thank you.
482
00:43:57,461 --> 00:43:58,420
Cheers.
483
00:44:02,670 --> 00:44:03,753
That's nice.
484
00:44:06,420 --> 00:44:07,961
Oops! Oh dear.
485
00:44:09,836 --> 00:44:12,920
- Don't worry.
- This is really good.
486
00:44:14,170 --> 00:44:16,545
Is it fermented?
487
00:44:16,711 --> 00:44:18,295
No, I don't think so.
488
00:44:20,628 --> 00:44:24,420
I'm obsessed with fermenting lately.
489
00:44:24,586 --> 00:44:30,253
I'm trying to make kimchi,
kombucha, sourdough bread...
490
00:44:30,420 --> 00:44:33,503
I just got so into all of it.
491
00:44:33,670 --> 00:44:38,336
Funny you should say that,
I used to be really into it too.
492
00:44:38,503 --> 00:44:43,295
- I spent hours on YouTube and blogs.
- Me too.
493
00:44:43,461 --> 00:44:47,670
I miss that. Wanting to ferment
everything. My fridge was...
494
00:44:47,836 --> 00:44:54,503
You sound like me. When I get hooked
on something, I go all in.
495
00:44:54,670 --> 00:44:58,336
That's probably why I'm a journalist.
Okay, well...
496
00:44:58,503 --> 00:45:01,836
- Have you always lived in Norway?
- Yes.
497
00:45:02,003 --> 00:45:05,295
- Apart from a few years in Denmark.
- Why Denmark?
498
00:45:07,170 --> 00:45:09,628
I got a job offer, so...
499
00:45:10,961 --> 00:45:14,420
It became my base for a few years.
500
00:45:19,003 --> 00:45:20,753
I love Denmark.
501
00:45:23,128 --> 00:45:30,336
And you've said you want to use your
knowledge to improve people's lives.
502
00:45:33,170 --> 00:45:36,170
Teaching in school...
503
00:45:36,336 --> 00:45:39,170
Do you feel like you've achieved that?
504
00:45:41,003 --> 00:45:42,586
Did I say that?
505
00:45:43,586 --> 00:45:44,753
Yes.
506
00:45:46,045 --> 00:45:53,128
I admire people who work
towards a higher purpose in life.
507
00:45:54,503 --> 00:45:56,545
I think that's really...
508
00:45:57,586 --> 00:46:01,128
I really respect that.
People who don't give up.
509
00:46:04,795 --> 00:46:07,253
I don't know if I've achieved...
510
00:46:08,545 --> 00:46:10,878
...any particular goals.
511
00:46:14,586 --> 00:46:16,086
But thank you.
512
00:46:20,878 --> 00:46:23,128
Do you want me to smile?
513
00:46:23,295 --> 00:46:28,670
Try and get your face
in the shadow of the tree.
514
00:46:28,836 --> 00:46:32,961
That's it. Great. Don't move.
515
00:46:33,128 --> 00:46:34,753
Just relax.
516
00:46:38,086 --> 00:46:40,253
I never know what to do in photos.
517
00:46:40,420 --> 00:46:42,920
The photos in the hallway look great.
518
00:46:44,336 --> 00:46:46,628
Those photos were Mia's idea.
519
00:47:00,253 --> 00:47:03,170
- Are you done?
- Yes.
520
00:47:03,336 --> 00:47:05,128
I'll come down.
521
00:47:09,045 --> 00:47:11,545
Every day is different.
522
00:47:11,711 --> 00:47:15,461
But that's what makes it fun.
523
00:47:17,086 --> 00:47:22,878
I like writing in the office. We also have
meetings there with the other journalists.
524
00:47:23,045 --> 00:47:26,253
And then I go around interviewing people.
525
00:47:27,795 --> 00:47:29,253
Like today.
526
00:47:31,336 --> 00:47:34,420
What does it take to be a journalist?
527
00:47:34,586 --> 00:47:38,045
It's not a protected title.
Anyone can start writing.
528
00:47:39,420 --> 00:47:43,420
But you need to be curious about people.
529
00:47:43,586 --> 00:47:46,628
Do you have any role models?
530
00:47:46,795 --> 00:47:54,003
I... admire people...
who achieve their dreams.
531
00:47:54,795 --> 00:47:58,211
Who don't give up and are committed.
532
00:48:05,628 --> 00:48:06,836
Thank you.
533
00:48:08,378 --> 00:48:09,545
This was great.
534
00:48:13,711 --> 00:48:16,711
Would you like to eat dinner with us?
535
00:48:16,878 --> 00:48:18,295
That's...
536
00:48:19,545 --> 00:48:22,128
No, I don't think...
537
00:48:24,920 --> 00:48:29,420
So nice of you to ask,
but I've got a little boy waiting for me.
538
00:48:30,295 --> 00:48:31,711
But thank you.
539
00:48:31,878 --> 00:48:35,420
Would you like something
for the trip home? A banana?
540
00:48:35,586 --> 00:48:37,086
No, that's alright.
541
00:48:39,420 --> 00:48:42,295
- Bye then.
- Bye, Edith.
542
00:48:43,586 --> 00:48:46,045
So you'll be in touch?
543
00:48:47,461 --> 00:48:49,836
Nothing is flawless-
544
00:48:50,003 --> 00:48:54,545
GAME DEVELOPER OPENS UP
AFTER HARSH CRITICISM
545
00:48:55,461 --> 00:49:00,086
Your personal experiences,
like we talked about last time.
546
00:49:00,253 --> 00:49:04,420
GAMES WITH MICRO TRANSACTIONS
CAN PUT PRESSURE ON CHILDREN...
547
00:49:04,586 --> 00:49:10,003
I had a bit of a...
personal crisis after that.
548
00:49:14,545 --> 00:49:17,128
WAS THE CRITICISM JUSTIFIED?
549
00:49:18,545 --> 00:49:19,628
SEND
550
00:49:24,920 --> 00:49:27,545
What about your mother and father?
551
00:49:27,711 --> 00:49:31,753
Do they have any prominent qualities?
552
00:49:31,920 --> 00:49:35,586
I think my mom is very caring.
553
00:49:35,753 --> 00:49:38,086
I don't see her that often.
554
00:49:39,336 --> 00:49:40,753
So...
555
00:49:45,586 --> 00:49:49,503
My father is probably
a bit more reserved, you could say.
556
00:49:51,795 --> 00:49:53,211
I found one!
557
00:49:59,586 --> 00:50:03,086
Which of your parents
do you identify the most with?
558
00:50:04,170 --> 00:50:09,753
I've been thinking
about that a lot lately.
559
00:50:14,045 --> 00:50:15,586
I think...
560
00:50:17,378 --> 00:50:18,586
My father.
561
00:50:50,420 --> 00:50:53,753
- How old is your daughter?
- She's 43.
562
00:50:55,336 --> 00:50:57,836
And how are you dealing with all of this?
563
00:51:00,878 --> 00:51:02,211
I'm fine.
564
00:51:03,586 --> 00:51:08,336
I just want to know
if this is going to keep happening.
565
00:51:08,503 --> 00:51:11,753
Well, stress will worsen the condition.
566
00:51:11,920 --> 00:51:15,878
So try to slow down.
567
00:51:16,045 --> 00:51:22,003
You mentioned the importance of
being social and seeing friends.
568
00:51:22,170 --> 00:51:24,503
I'm trying to encourage you to do that.
569
00:51:24,670 --> 00:51:27,711
But I'm a little worried about...
570
00:51:27,878 --> 00:51:32,795
We have a birthday coming up.
Maybe she shouldn't come?
571
00:51:32,961 --> 00:51:36,253
It's hard to say, but if there
are many kids there,
572
00:51:36,420 --> 00:51:38,586
that will increase stress levels.
573
00:51:38,753 --> 00:51:41,128
So maybe that's not a great idea.
574
00:51:42,253 --> 00:51:46,711
So you're saying that
it's up to me to decide?
575
00:51:46,878 --> 00:51:48,795
Yes and no.
576
00:51:48,961 --> 00:51:52,545
Have there been any changes at home?
577
00:51:54,461 --> 00:51:58,253
No... Everything's normal.
578
00:51:58,420 --> 00:52:01,878
And that is...
You live together, is that correct?
579
00:52:02,045 --> 00:52:04,795
With Sigurd, your four-year-old.
580
00:52:04,961 --> 00:52:07,211
Yes. Almost five.
581
00:52:07,378 --> 00:52:09,920
Edith was in a long-term relationship,
582
00:52:10,086 --> 00:52:14,795
and thought they would have children,
but then he didn't want to.
583
00:52:14,961 --> 00:52:18,586
So she waited too long.
584
00:52:18,753 --> 00:52:23,211
I had Sigurd by myself,
and he's doing great.
585
00:52:23,378 --> 00:52:26,920
Except that it can be hard
to get through to him sometimes.
586
00:52:27,086 --> 00:52:28,795
Like all children at that age.
587
00:52:31,253 --> 00:52:32,711
Yes.
588
00:52:34,295 --> 00:52:37,628
The situation at home is what it is.
589
00:52:37,795 --> 00:52:42,753
There's no reason to worry.
We're doing just fine.
590
00:52:42,920 --> 00:52:47,253
This is about making
adaptations for your sake, mum.
591
00:52:47,420 --> 00:52:52,795
When you chose to be a single mother,
was the plan for Dorthe to help you
592
00:52:52,961 --> 00:52:55,211
more than she's able to now?
593
00:52:55,378 --> 00:52:58,295
Yes, I guess it was.
594
00:52:58,461 --> 00:53:00,920
That plan has changed a bit now.
595
00:53:01,086 --> 00:53:04,128
As Dorthe's dementia keeps developing.
596
00:53:04,295 --> 00:53:07,461
- But we do just fine, as I've said.
- Yes.
597
00:53:07,628 --> 00:53:12,086
The important thing is that I do
the exercises you've given me.
598
00:53:12,253 --> 00:53:15,628
You have to slow down.
That's the important thing.
599
00:53:18,753 --> 00:53:21,545
Are you saying
I'm a stressed-out solo mom?
600
00:53:21,711 --> 00:53:23,711
You're the one saying that, Edith.
601
00:53:23,878 --> 00:53:27,295
It's not my fault you're sick.
602
00:53:27,461 --> 00:53:32,253
- I can take care of myself.
- No, you can't!
603
00:53:32,420 --> 00:53:36,545
You're not taking it seriously!
And now we're talking about me?
604
00:53:36,711 --> 00:53:41,753
You're angry with me because of your
insecurities as a solo mom.
605
00:53:41,920 --> 00:53:44,795
- What on earth are you saying?
- It's true.
606
00:53:44,961 --> 00:53:47,461
You were a single mom yourself.
Dad left, remember?
607
00:53:47,628 --> 00:53:50,545
Let's just calm down.
608
00:53:50,711 --> 00:53:55,711
I think what you've done is really brave.
609
00:53:55,878 --> 00:53:59,795
Brave? It's not brave,
it's perfectly normal!
610
00:53:59,961 --> 00:54:03,253
Do you tell expecting couples
that they're brave?
611
00:54:03,420 --> 00:54:07,378
Calm down and listen to the doctor.
612
00:54:07,545 --> 00:54:08,670
No!
613
00:54:08,836 --> 00:54:11,128
First floor.
614
00:54:20,628 --> 00:54:26,920
What about a board game?
One that we could play together?
615
00:54:27,086 --> 00:54:33,086
No. I want something old that
no one else has ever found.
616
00:54:33,253 --> 00:54:37,711
- PUT IT BEHIND YOU
- I JUST HAVE TO SEE HIM ONE MORE TIME
617
00:54:37,878 --> 00:54:41,920
...my friends playing pétanque.
Do you remember?
618
00:54:46,753 --> 00:54:48,170
Oh yeah.
619
00:54:50,170 --> 00:54:56,003
But there were games in the toy shop,
that we could've played together.
620
00:54:56,170 --> 00:54:57,503
I said no!
621
00:54:57,670 --> 00:55:01,628
- Are you completely sure?
- Yes, I told you.
622
00:55:01,795 --> 00:55:05,461
- I HAVE SO MANY QUESTIONS
- BUT WHAT DO YOU WANT FROM HIM?
623
00:55:17,670 --> 00:55:21,836
I've decided to try again
with the same donor.
624
00:55:24,253 --> 00:55:28,878
- With the same donor?
- Yeah. That was always the plan.
625
00:55:29,045 --> 00:55:32,295
- Was it?
- What's up with you?
626
00:55:33,503 --> 00:55:35,461
Nothing's up, I just...
627
00:55:37,378 --> 00:55:41,336
I'm just thinking about Jens.
Shouldn't you guys be...
628
00:55:41,503 --> 00:55:44,961
Jens doesn't know what he wants,
and the clock is ticking,
629
00:55:45,128 --> 00:55:49,753
so if I want Amanda to have a sibling,
it has to be now, and with Inuus.
630
00:55:53,003 --> 00:55:55,253
Of course. I'm sorry.
631
00:55:56,586 --> 00:55:59,378
I had a long night with Sigurd.
632
00:56:00,461 --> 00:56:03,670
But this is good news!
633
00:56:03,836 --> 00:56:06,711
- How nice for Amanda.
- And for Sigurd!
634
00:56:06,878 --> 00:56:09,003
He'll have another sibling too!
635
00:56:09,170 --> 00:56:11,420
That's right!
636
00:56:11,586 --> 00:56:12,836
Wow.
637
00:56:13,003 --> 00:56:15,503
He's going to be thrilled!
638
00:56:20,795 --> 00:56:25,336
Thanks for taking him this Saturday.
I really appreciate it.
639
00:56:25,503 --> 00:56:27,545
Of course.
640
00:56:27,711 --> 00:56:31,045
But I was thinking Jens could take them.
641
00:56:33,836 --> 00:56:36,336
- Oh yeah?
- So I can come out with you!
642
00:56:37,711 --> 00:56:41,711
Right? Sure, maybe!
643
00:56:41,878 --> 00:56:43,545
Let's talk about it.
644
00:56:43,711 --> 00:56:45,295
Sigurd!
645
00:56:46,878 --> 00:56:49,961
Sigurd! Leave that lady alone.
646
00:57:01,461 --> 00:57:02,628
What?
647
00:57:02,795 --> 00:57:05,045
I don't get it.
648
00:57:05,211 --> 00:57:07,711
- I've got it.
- Show us, then.
649
00:57:07,878 --> 00:57:09,711
No.
650
00:57:09,878 --> 00:57:11,336
"I've got it." Come on!
651
00:57:13,003 --> 00:57:15,128
Your index finger.
652
00:57:15,295 --> 00:57:16,753
What?
653
00:57:16,920 --> 00:57:20,295
Can't you just tell us? Tell us!
654
00:57:20,461 --> 00:57:22,420
No! But this round's on me.
655
00:57:22,586 --> 00:57:25,045
Sorry, I've got a flight at six a.m.
656
00:57:25,211 --> 00:57:27,503
- No!
- Rain check.
657
00:57:29,295 --> 00:57:33,336
Get something nice for Sigurd!
You know what he likes?
658
00:57:33,503 --> 00:57:35,753
Some Japanese trash.
659
00:57:37,753 --> 00:57:39,211
- Hey.
- What?
660
00:57:39,378 --> 00:57:42,961
I think I saw Inuus in here.
661
00:57:45,961 --> 00:57:48,503
- Are you sure?
- Yes.
662
00:57:51,045 --> 00:57:56,045
- So maybe you should leave with me.
- No, why?
663
00:57:56,211 --> 00:58:01,128
Alright. It's up to you.
Just don't do anything stupid.
664
00:58:01,295 --> 00:58:03,128
- Of course not!
- Good.
665
00:58:03,961 --> 00:58:08,461
You've been warned. So you'll leave
with the others, right? Yes?
666
00:58:11,045 --> 00:58:13,586
Enjoy your trip. Have fun.
667
00:58:15,795 --> 00:58:19,295
- Next round, next round.
- Coming up.
668
00:58:22,420 --> 00:58:24,545
Three beers and three Fernet.
669
00:59:18,628 --> 00:59:22,711
- Aftenposten?
- You remember me.
670
00:59:23,961 --> 00:59:26,836
It's all Molly's
been talking about for weeks.
671
00:59:27,003 --> 00:59:30,295
- How are you?
- I'm good.
672
00:59:31,003 --> 00:59:32,086
Thirsty?
673
00:59:35,128 --> 00:59:36,753
You look different.
674
00:59:38,670 --> 00:59:40,586
Is that a compliment?
675
00:59:43,461 --> 00:59:48,253
I'm alright. I've been better, but...
676
00:59:48,420 --> 00:59:51,628
- Were you unhappy with the story?
- No, not at all.
677
00:59:51,795 --> 00:59:56,670
It was great. I just get a little
self-conscious reading about myself.
678
00:59:56,836 --> 00:59:59,211
Do you need a hand with the drinks?
679
00:59:59,378 --> 01:00:01,670
- Hi. Torbjørn.
- Niels.
680
01:00:01,836 --> 01:00:04,086
Niels pilsner.
681
01:00:05,170 --> 01:00:07,253
- Sorry.
- No worries.
682
01:00:08,170 --> 01:00:09,586
Well?
683
01:00:11,670 --> 01:00:14,878
- Good to see you again.
- You too.
684
01:00:15,045 --> 01:00:16,461
Tell Molly hi.
685
01:00:16,628 --> 01:00:20,711
- She's going to be an awesome journalist.
- Yes. Agreed.
686
01:00:24,920 --> 01:00:26,295
Who was that?
687
01:00:26,461 --> 01:00:29,586
Someone I did a story on a while back.
688
01:00:29,753 --> 01:00:34,711
Cool. You're so on top of everything.
All while being a solo mom.
689
01:00:36,170 --> 01:00:38,461
What's that supposed to mean?
690
01:00:39,211 --> 01:00:40,836
What's that supposed to mean?
691
01:00:41,628 --> 01:00:46,378
- I didn't mean it like that.
- And yet it comes out like that!
692
01:00:47,378 --> 01:00:51,586
Why do you do that?
Why do you always do that?
693
01:00:51,753 --> 01:00:55,545
Hey. Edith. Listen.
694
01:00:55,711 --> 01:01:00,003
I'm giving you a hug.
695
01:01:00,170 --> 01:01:02,378
- Hey.
- What?
696
01:01:04,211 --> 01:01:08,878
Did I offend your independence by offering
to help you carry the drinks?
697
01:01:10,211 --> 01:01:12,378
Do you want to carry them by yourself?
698
01:01:13,253 --> 01:01:16,170
We need to get back to the babysitter.
699
01:01:16,336 --> 01:01:18,253
Are you leaving?
700
01:01:21,503 --> 01:01:22,795
Are you coming?
701
01:01:22,961 --> 01:01:26,670
No, I want to finish my drink.
You guys go.
702
01:01:26,836 --> 01:01:29,461
- Are you sure?
- Yeah.
703
01:01:29,628 --> 01:01:32,170
- Say hi to Dorthe.
- She's away with a friend.
704
01:01:32,336 --> 01:01:34,461
It's going to be alright.
705
01:01:34,628 --> 01:01:37,003
Thanks, I guess?
706
01:01:37,170 --> 01:01:39,045
Are you good?
707
01:02:17,295 --> 01:02:18,795
Hi, Edith.
708
01:02:20,253 --> 01:02:22,878
Hope you're having a great time.
709
01:02:23,045 --> 01:02:27,045
Not to put a damper on the mood, but...
710
01:02:28,711 --> 01:02:33,045
I've actually been waiting
for you to call all night.
711
01:02:33,211 --> 01:02:38,336
Sometimes I feel like you see me
more as a babysitter than a friend.
712
01:02:38,503 --> 01:02:41,461
And that's a pretty crap feeling.
713
01:02:45,628 --> 01:02:49,045
When we found out the kids
had the same dad,
714
01:02:49,211 --> 01:02:51,836
I was hoping we'd be more of a...
715
01:02:53,795 --> 01:02:55,878
Or maybe...
716
01:02:56,045 --> 01:03:00,211
Well, anyway. The kids are fine.
717
01:03:00,378 --> 01:03:03,628
I don't know if you got the photos
I sent?
718
01:03:03,795 --> 01:03:07,045
I'll see you tomorrow.
719
01:03:14,670 --> 01:03:16,545
- A beer.
- Coming up.
720
01:03:28,128 --> 01:03:30,211
- There you go.
- Thanks.
721
01:04:10,295 --> 01:04:12,128
NIELS KROHN
ARE YOU LEAVING?
722
01:04:20,211 --> 01:04:25,378
- That's Celine. Not me.
- I know.
723
01:04:31,503 --> 01:04:33,045
- Hi.
- Hi.
724
01:04:35,295 --> 01:04:38,545
- I ordered a taxi.
- Yes.
725
01:04:40,670 --> 01:04:43,545
Maybe I could...
726
01:04:43,711 --> 01:04:47,045
Do you want to share it?
I'm not going far.
727
01:04:47,211 --> 01:04:49,836
Nesodden isn't the same way.
728
01:04:50,003 --> 01:04:53,920
I'm not going to Nesodden.
Mia and I have split up.
729
01:04:54,086 --> 01:04:57,170
- What?
- So...
730
01:04:57,336 --> 01:05:02,128
I'm staying with a friend
while I'm sorting things out.
731
01:05:02,295 --> 01:05:03,670
Shit.
732
01:05:04,795 --> 01:05:09,545
I'm alright. It feels like
the right thing. For both of us.
733
01:05:09,711 --> 01:05:14,420
But you were the perfect family.
Surely you'll work things out?
734
01:05:14,586 --> 01:05:17,753
No. Not this time.
735
01:05:28,836 --> 01:05:33,086
- Where are the wine glasses?
- Above the sink.
736
01:05:39,086 --> 01:05:41,003
Have you read this?
737
01:05:42,336 --> 01:05:46,211
No, not yet. Have you?
738
01:05:46,378 --> 01:05:51,211
- Well, I got the audio book.
- That's the same thing.
739
01:05:51,378 --> 01:05:53,711
Is it really, though?
740
01:05:56,045 --> 01:05:58,753
- Campari?
- It's all I've got.
741
01:06:00,295 --> 01:06:02,003
Delicious.
742
01:06:11,836 --> 01:06:16,795
I love your flat.
Do you want to give me a tour?
743
01:06:16,961 --> 01:06:22,295
It's actually my mother's,
and I've got plans to renovate it,
744
01:06:22,461 --> 01:06:24,795
but I never got around to it.
745
01:06:24,961 --> 01:06:28,920
- So there's not that much to see.
- I'd still love a tour.
746
01:06:31,086 --> 01:06:33,295
Okay.
747
01:06:33,461 --> 01:06:35,128
- Cheers.
- Cheers.
748
01:06:47,170 --> 01:06:49,461
No, that's not allowed!
749
01:06:49,628 --> 01:06:51,461
A little bit...
750
01:06:52,295 --> 01:06:55,795
- Just add some more apple juice.
- More apple juice, yes.
751
01:06:55,961 --> 01:07:00,795
Or more Campari.
I think that'll do the trick.
752
01:07:00,961 --> 01:07:04,253
When I was little,
I wanted to be an architect.
753
01:07:04,420 --> 01:07:07,586
But then you married one instead?
754
01:07:15,378 --> 01:07:21,420
- Now I get it. I get everything.
- I told you I'm going to renovate!
755
01:07:23,461 --> 01:07:25,878
What's in here?
756
01:07:26,045 --> 01:07:29,253
- Woah, there's a lot of stuff.
- That's my son's room.
757
01:07:29,420 --> 01:07:32,336
It reminds me of my childhood room.
758
01:07:32,503 --> 01:07:34,586
It's really nice.
759
01:07:34,753 --> 01:07:36,253
Thanks.
760
01:07:40,961 --> 01:07:45,378
- I'll keep going, okay?
- Go right ahead.
761
01:07:45,545 --> 01:07:49,461
- Mind your head!
- That happens all the time.
762
01:07:50,628 --> 01:07:52,461
Alright.
763
01:07:55,878 --> 01:07:57,670
This is where it happens.
764
01:08:00,086 --> 01:08:03,961
Now this tour seems like
"a move" on my part.
765
01:08:04,128 --> 01:08:08,878
- A very childish move.
- I'm very young.
766
01:08:09,045 --> 01:08:11,711
You're not that young. Are you?
767
01:08:14,753 --> 01:08:16,920
- Another one?
- Yes.
768
01:08:19,836 --> 01:08:23,461
We were never really meant to be.
769
01:08:24,961 --> 01:08:26,545
Really.
770
01:08:26,711 --> 01:08:31,128
But that can be hard to see
when you've got children.
771
01:08:36,461 --> 01:08:40,586
I'm just really worried
about losing the kids.
772
01:08:44,253 --> 01:08:46,711
Especially since they're not...
773
01:08:50,086 --> 01:08:53,336
- Do you really think you will?
- Well, I...
774
01:08:53,503 --> 01:08:55,920
They have a father.
775
01:08:56,920 --> 01:09:02,336
- But they still love you.
- Yes. They do.
776
01:09:03,711 --> 01:09:06,295
But maybe I haven't been there
long enough.
777
01:09:06,461 --> 01:09:10,461
They're lucky to have
so many people who love them.
778
01:09:12,628 --> 01:09:15,628
But I see what you mean.
779
01:09:15,795 --> 01:09:18,545
The fear of not being enough.
780
01:09:18,711 --> 01:09:21,170
- Do you ever feel like that?
- Of course.
781
01:09:22,878 --> 01:09:24,753
Where is your son's dad?
782
01:09:27,336 --> 01:09:29,711
We don't have to talk about it.
783
01:09:29,878 --> 01:09:32,336
It's alright. It's just...
784
01:09:34,295 --> 01:09:38,461
He's just...
He doesn't live in Norway anymore.
785
01:09:40,670 --> 01:09:46,003
He moved back to New York
when Sigurd was two.
786
01:09:46,170 --> 01:09:49,753
He's an artist, so... he didn't want that.
787
01:09:49,920 --> 01:09:54,128
And we hadn't planned on having a child.
I was the one who wanted that.
788
01:09:54,295 --> 01:09:56,670
Is he in touch with Sigurd?
789
01:09:57,795 --> 01:10:01,003
- No.
- Not at all?
790
01:10:46,503 --> 01:10:50,003
That dress is fucking killer.
791
01:10:50,170 --> 01:10:54,628
Is it red or brown? I can't tell.
But it looks so good on you.
792
01:10:57,711 --> 01:11:00,961
- Let's see what colour it is on you.
- On me?
793
01:11:01,128 --> 01:11:03,003
Yes.
794
01:11:03,170 --> 01:11:06,670
I'm just going down to the fitting room.
795
01:11:13,128 --> 01:11:14,586
Okay.
796
01:11:27,878 --> 01:11:29,003
Okay.
797
01:11:31,545 --> 01:11:33,211
Take this.
798
01:11:34,086 --> 01:11:35,628
Oh shit.
799
01:11:35,795 --> 01:11:37,920
Sorry.
800
01:11:39,378 --> 01:11:42,836
- I spilled Campari on...
- No worries.
801
01:11:43,003 --> 01:11:47,503
- I didn't get any on the dress.
- There are towels in the bathroom.
802
01:12:04,420 --> 01:12:08,628
- I found this.
- You look gorgeous.
803
01:12:08,795 --> 01:12:11,336
- Do you mind?
- Not at all.
804
01:12:17,378 --> 01:12:20,170
You should start wearing dresses.
805
01:12:52,211 --> 01:12:55,378
Is this a drunk tattoo?
806
01:13:00,670 --> 01:13:04,545
Do you have any tattoos?
807
01:13:04,711 --> 01:13:08,878
No, I'm afraid of...
And besides, Mia hated it.
808
01:13:12,253 --> 01:13:14,795
She wouldn't let me. I mean...
809
01:13:17,711 --> 01:13:20,003
I have a needle.
810
01:13:21,086 --> 01:13:22,211
And ink.
811
01:13:22,378 --> 01:13:24,461
Is that how you did yours? Let's go!
812
01:13:27,253 --> 01:13:31,795
- It's going to look like yours, right?
- Yes, identical.
813
01:14:08,420 --> 01:14:10,586
Morning.
814
01:14:17,086 --> 01:14:21,253
- I'm going to get some breakfast.
- That's awesome.
815
01:14:23,128 --> 01:14:24,920
Don't go anywhere.
816
01:15:48,295 --> 01:15:53,461
Can you tell us
about your current work situation?
817
01:15:53,628 --> 01:15:57,086
You are self-employed?
818
01:15:57,253 --> 01:16:01,295
It sounds like I'm unemployed.
819
01:16:01,461 --> 01:16:06,128
No, uh... I'm an entrepreneur.
Tech development.
820
01:16:06,295 --> 01:16:09,378
I did a game a few yea-
821
01:16:19,628 --> 01:16:23,336
- years ago that did pretty well.
822
01:16:24,295 --> 01:16:28,545
- Should I say the name of the game?
- No, please don't.
823
01:16:28,711 --> 01:16:32,253
Is that something
you want to continue doing?
824
01:16:33,378 --> 01:16:35,961
Right now I'm working on-
825
01:17:57,670 --> 01:17:59,920
Yoohoo!
826
01:18:02,170 --> 01:18:03,920
Hi!
827
01:18:04,086 --> 01:18:06,753
Did you have a bit too much last night?
828
01:18:21,878 --> 01:18:23,086
Do you like these?
829
01:18:30,378 --> 01:18:33,420
Where did you say Sigurd's dad was?
830
01:18:35,336 --> 01:18:37,086
I told you last night.
831
01:18:37,253 --> 01:18:41,253
- He...
- Hello! It's just us!
832
01:18:42,461 --> 01:18:47,920
- Can I play pétanque with Amanda?
- What are you doing here already?
833
01:18:48,086 --> 01:18:51,295
- Let's go out again.
- I want to go to the park!
834
01:18:51,461 --> 01:18:56,170
Edith has a colleague over,
so we'll go out in the yard.
835
01:18:56,336 --> 01:18:59,253
We were just wrapping up.
836
01:19:02,670 --> 01:19:07,170
I'm sorry.
They were supposed to come back later.
837
01:19:13,836 --> 01:19:20,128
I think maybe you have to leave.
If that's okay.
838
01:19:20,295 --> 01:19:23,961
You didn't answer...
I'm just trying to understand...
839
01:19:25,545 --> 01:19:28,253
You're not in touch with Sigurd's father?
840
01:19:29,420 --> 01:19:30,920
No.
841
01:19:35,003 --> 01:19:36,753
Not at all?
842
01:19:37,836 --> 01:19:41,586
- Well, he left.
- To paint?
843
01:19:49,711 --> 01:19:51,253
You've looked me up.
844
01:20:07,795 --> 01:20:10,961
I just wanted to know who you were.
I didn't...
845
01:20:11,128 --> 01:20:12,711
What do you mean?
846
01:20:12,878 --> 01:20:15,711
I wanted to know
if you were a good person.
847
01:20:18,211 --> 01:20:22,170
How... How did you-
848
01:20:22,336 --> 01:20:25,878
I googled you,
and then lots of stuff came up.
849
01:20:26,045 --> 01:20:28,586
And I just wanted to know a bit more.
850
01:20:28,753 --> 01:20:29,961
And then...
851
01:20:30,128 --> 01:20:32,795
You've been in my home.
You met my family.
852
01:20:34,878 --> 01:20:36,628
What do you want?
853
01:20:37,878 --> 01:20:42,753
I just wanted to meet you once. And then
you showed up at my office with Molly.
854
01:20:42,920 --> 01:20:46,461
Wait. Wait!
855
01:20:46,628 --> 01:20:48,586
What was I supposed to do?
856
01:20:48,753 --> 01:20:51,878
So it's my fault?
Is that what you're saying?
857
01:20:53,211 --> 01:20:54,461
Is it my fault?
858
01:20:56,628 --> 01:21:00,170
- I don't know.
- I'm not the one who...
859
01:21:02,878 --> 01:21:05,253
Don't look at me like that.
860
01:21:05,420 --> 01:21:08,586
Don't look at me like that.
You're the sick one here.
861
01:21:12,003 --> 01:21:14,086
I haven't...
862
01:21:18,170 --> 01:21:20,128
Can you please leave!
863
01:21:20,295 --> 01:21:25,086
I'm just trying to understand.
You've sought me out, right?
864
01:21:26,670 --> 01:21:28,711
Do you know how insane that is?
865
01:21:28,878 --> 01:21:32,670
I don't want you here! Please leave!
866
01:21:32,836 --> 01:21:34,586
Is he...
867
01:21:36,795 --> 01:21:39,795
Edith? Are you serious? Don't...
868
01:21:39,961 --> 01:21:42,253
We need to talk.
869
01:21:44,253 --> 01:21:45,711
Are you serious?
870
01:21:49,336 --> 01:21:51,961
Have you got everything?
871
01:22:16,253 --> 01:22:18,170
We're sweeping the floor.
872
01:22:18,336 --> 01:22:23,086
Would you like to say anything to
the child produced from your donation?
873
01:22:25,795 --> 01:22:28,961
Hello. This is your donor.
874
01:22:30,795 --> 01:22:33,128
I hope you are loved.
875
01:22:34,420 --> 01:22:36,295
And I think you are,
876
01:22:36,461 --> 01:22:41,753
because your parent or parents
went through a lot to have you.
877
01:22:44,378 --> 01:22:48,503
Life is going to be good... and bad.
878
01:22:48,670 --> 01:22:51,670
So... good luck!
879
01:22:58,586 --> 01:23:01,586
ARE YOU SURE
YOU WANT TO DELETE RECORDING?
880
01:23:30,211 --> 01:23:32,211
I can't sleep.
881
01:23:36,086 --> 01:23:37,920
Poor baby.
882
01:23:39,128 --> 01:23:41,461
Can I lie here for a bit?
883
01:23:44,878 --> 01:23:47,378
You have to sleep in your own bed, Edith.
884
01:23:54,920 --> 01:23:59,128
You're so good at that now.
Sleeping alone.
885
01:24:50,503 --> 01:24:53,461
Amanda hasn't asked me about it.
886
01:24:53,628 --> 01:24:57,003
That's good. Sigurd hasn't either.
887
01:24:57,670 --> 01:25:01,170
Do you think he realised
Amanda is his as well?
888
01:25:02,295 --> 01:25:04,045
I hope not.
889
01:25:09,503 --> 01:25:11,795
How could you let this happen?
890
01:25:14,045 --> 01:25:17,961
I just felt a need to know more about him.
891
01:25:18,128 --> 01:25:20,420
In case Sigurd ever asked.
892
01:25:21,545 --> 01:25:23,961
That I'd have an answer.
893
01:25:25,336 --> 01:25:29,420
And I felt like I knew him
before we'd even met.
894
01:25:29,586 --> 01:25:31,045
I was...
895
01:25:32,336 --> 01:25:34,461
I know I told you his name.
896
01:25:36,045 --> 01:25:38,503
I'm sorry. I shouldn't have.
897
01:25:39,878 --> 01:25:41,253
No.
898
01:25:44,503 --> 01:25:47,503
But that was my limit.
I hope you know that.
899
01:25:48,795 --> 01:25:50,545
Of course.
900
01:25:53,503 --> 01:25:56,628
I'm not going to use Inuus
as a donor again.
901
01:25:56,795 --> 01:25:59,836
Or Niels, or...
I don't know what to call him.
902
01:26:02,628 --> 01:26:04,961
He's too real now.
903
01:26:10,003 --> 01:26:13,503
Listen...
What you said in that voice message.
904
01:26:15,336 --> 01:26:17,545
You are completely right.
905
01:26:17,711 --> 01:26:19,795
I don't see you as a friend.
906
01:26:23,128 --> 01:26:24,545
We're family.
907
01:26:26,045 --> 01:26:29,336
You're Sigurd's sister's mother.
908
01:26:29,503 --> 01:26:33,211
I'm so happy to have you in our lives.
909
01:26:34,295 --> 01:26:36,878
I couldn't have done all this without you.
910
01:26:48,128 --> 01:26:51,836
Oh well. They've got 10 000
other siblings out there.
911
01:26:52,170 --> 01:26:53,586
True.
912
01:26:58,003 --> 01:27:01,628
Can we go to the park later, grandma?
913
01:27:01,795 --> 01:27:03,920
I think we'll stay inside, Sigurd.
914
01:27:39,545 --> 01:27:41,878
A coffee, please.
915
01:28:02,461 --> 01:28:04,170
I felt tricked.
916
01:28:06,045 --> 01:28:08,836
You put me in a difficult position.
917
01:28:10,836 --> 01:28:13,003
It was a huge transgression.
918
01:28:13,920 --> 01:28:16,003
Toward me.
919
01:28:16,170 --> 01:28:17,670
Yes.
920
01:28:18,961 --> 01:28:20,920
And I'm really sorry.
921
01:28:23,128 --> 01:28:24,670
Really.
922
01:28:31,628 --> 01:28:34,295
What were you hoping would happen?
923
01:28:37,545 --> 01:28:40,170
What was I hoping would happen?
924
01:28:46,378 --> 01:28:48,295
I thought I might...
925
01:28:51,378 --> 01:28:56,461
...understand my son better
if I knew who his father was.
926
01:29:02,711 --> 01:29:05,503
You must've known it would go...
927
01:29:08,461 --> 01:29:12,295
Go wrong, sooner or later.
928
01:29:12,461 --> 01:29:14,711
I got carried away.
929
01:29:17,170 --> 01:29:19,045
I liked you.
930
01:29:23,045 --> 01:29:26,378
I was very charmed by you, too.
931
01:29:34,795 --> 01:29:39,503
Having a kid by myself was a plan-B.
932
01:29:47,420 --> 01:29:50,753
I sometimes worry I'm not enough for him.
933
01:29:56,420 --> 01:29:58,836
I'd like to suggest...
934
01:30:00,045 --> 01:30:02,295
...that Sigurd and I meet.
935
01:30:03,336 --> 01:30:05,961
In a proper setting.
936
01:30:09,670 --> 01:30:14,003
But it's completely up to you.
Sigurd is your son.
937
01:30:15,795 --> 01:30:17,211
But...
938
01:30:33,420 --> 01:30:37,086
Can I ask you why you donated?
939
01:30:44,420 --> 01:30:46,795
It was kind of spontaneous.
940
01:30:49,295 --> 01:30:54,128
I saw an ad for a sperm bank
when I was at a conference in Copenhagen.
941
01:30:56,003 --> 01:30:58,295
It was a spur of the moment thing.
942
01:31:00,503 --> 01:31:03,003
I think I actually...
943
01:31:03,170 --> 01:31:07,420
Mia and I were going through
a difficult time.
944
01:31:07,586 --> 01:31:10,878
She didn't want more kids. So...
945
01:31:11,753 --> 01:31:15,545
Maybe it was a way for me
to feel like there's a part...
946
01:31:16,920 --> 01:31:18,586
...of me out there.
947
01:31:26,211 --> 01:31:28,670
I thought I could solve it
by wanking in a cup.
948
01:31:32,920 --> 01:31:34,545
I need to use the bathroom.
949
01:31:36,795 --> 01:31:39,753
- Speaking of.
- Yes.
950
01:33:26,003 --> 01:33:28,378
Does this look alright?
951
01:33:28,545 --> 01:33:31,086
Or is it too low?
952
01:33:31,253 --> 01:33:34,336
I think it's fine right there.
953
01:33:35,420 --> 01:33:38,211
Look at this!
954
01:33:39,670 --> 01:33:44,211
I know that I put you
in a difficult situation.
955
01:33:45,628 --> 01:33:49,295
And I may have planted
a need in you to meet Sigurd,
956
01:33:49,461 --> 01:33:51,836
now that you know he exists.
957
01:33:54,295 --> 01:33:57,461
But... what if you change your mind?
958
01:33:59,086 --> 01:34:03,253
I don't want to create a longing in him.
959
01:34:05,878 --> 01:34:10,836
To him you're a kind man somewhere
in the world who helped me have him.
960
01:34:12,711 --> 01:34:14,420
And that's it.
961
01:34:22,711 --> 01:34:25,128
If he's going to meet you...
962
01:34:26,170 --> 01:34:32,420
I want that to be his decision, when
he's old enough to make that decision.
963
01:34:35,836 --> 01:34:39,336
And I hope he wants to.
964
01:34:49,961 --> 01:34:53,711
It might not have meant much to you
to wank in that cup, but...
965
01:34:56,170 --> 01:34:58,128
It's my whole world.